My health is so poorly now that I don’t even make plans… but a few years ago when I was still trying to make plans with others I would always be struck with the HARD decision of pushing my body through incredible pain or illness to keep the plan… or the emotional pain of canceling.
We need to be sure to always advocate for ourselves and be upfront about all plans that we 100% plan to be there and 100% want to be there… but that we CAN’T 100% guarantee that we will actually be able to go when the day arrives, because our bodies truly make the decisions for us.
I hope the people in your life will be compassionate and understanding… and if they are not then DON’T make plans with them… your health is more important!
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