Hi! Welcome, I'am April
I am an author, blogger, and on a mission to bring support, love, motivation and wisdom to others living with chronic illness, disability, or any other major life obstacle. I am obsessed with self-growth, purposefully living, my pets, learning to live my best life despite chronic illness, and God.

Being Jealous of others HEALTH is Normal!
It is completely NORMAL to be jealous of other’s health as you continue to battle for yours and as your health continues to deteriorate. ...
Challenge of chronic illness and romance...
Long term committed relationships as well all know do not come easy and take a willingness to learn, grow and work together through life...
All the things that will NOT heal my chronic illness!
All my fellow spoonies I KNOW you feel the pain of this one! If I had a dollar for every time I received unsolicited health advice for a...
I plan by the HOUR not the Day, or Week!
In a world which operates on plans, and schedules by the day, the week, month sometimes even a year in advance… living in a chronically...
The BLOW to Self-Esteem that chronic illness is!
In a society which puts so much emphasis on our worth being connected to our personal achievements, accomplishments, and our ability to...
Just because I CAN today... doesn't mean I CAN tomorrow...
This is one of the most challenging thing for those of us with chronic illness to explain to those in our life… so often with chronic...
Why Weekends are the WORST for me!
For me the weekends are THE HARDEST for my emotional health and here’s why… during the week, I feel more like the average 39 year old… I...
The toll of Chronic Pain...
16 years of pain almost everyday now… I know that is just unfathomable for a healthy person to understand. This type of long-term ongoing...
It is NOT in your head, but it DOES affect your head!
Nearly everyone living with mitochondrial disease who was diagnosed as an adult has reported at least once during their odyssey for a...
When your Body will not adhere to schedules!
The single most stressful part of my life with mitochondrial disease is NOT the illness itself, or the pain, or doctors appointments,...
When to PUSH... when to SURRENDER!
In a healthy body, societal norms give us pretty good guide-posts on when in life we can anticipate needing to transition from full-time...
When "Good Days" are so few...
This is my current reality and I know is same for so many others living with chronic illness. Due to the chronic nature of our illnesses...
It's okay if Traditions need to change...
THIS right here is gold that I wish I would have learned earlier in my chronic illness journey… I often pushed and pushed myself beyond...
Everything is 10X HARDER with Chronic Illness!
Something I have to constantly remind myself of as well as those around me is that due to life with chronic illness EVERYTHING I do all...
Not everyone will stay...
One of the MOST painful lessons I learned when chronic illness took over my life is that not everyone will stay! Once I couldn’t be the...
The Fatigue of Advocacy
When living with a chronic illness, especially a rare chronic illness like mitochondrial disease which I battle daily we not only have to...
The Extreme STRESS of Chronic Illness!
If you are living with a chronic progressive illness like I am… PLEASE don’t be hard on yourself when you are struggling emotionally with...
Feeling like giving up is Normal!
As my disease worsens and I now struggle to do every simple daily task, unable to work more than a couple hours a day, and constantly...
I am NEVER faking being ill... only Faking being well!
Since I began needing to use mobility aids back in 2010… this has been one of THE most challenging things for people to understand! Those...






















